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Effective Time Management = Effective Activism. #Truth

Effective Time Management = Effective Activism. #Truth

Everything that we do as anti-abortion activists has to be ordered towards one thing: saving babies.
However, if there is one thing I’ve learned as a former campus prezzy it’s that if you don’t manage time your time well you won’t be able to affect your campus, you won’t be able to save babies and you definitely won’t be able to function as an activist human being…

You have a lot going on. You have papers to write, classes to attend, eating to do, Facebook to browse, SnapChat to peak at. You’re busy, we get it. So act like it. Tell your time where its supposed to go. It is well within your control to do so.

You won’t function well as a human being (you are still human…)

#TruthTalk, you guys. When I was a campus pro-life prezzy, I was pretty terrible at managing my time. Often, on the days that we did activism I was so busy that I wouldn’t eat for most of the day. I would end up eating breakfast at like… 4 pm. Shockingly, not eating for a whole day is bad for you.

Our activism would often be planned somewhat last minute (I mean sometimes you have to do that when.. certain kinds of meetings or events take place that #ShallNotBeNamed that you suddenly found out about and must gather the troops to be at…) . Sometimes, we would just decide the night before or the week before what we were doing.

Looking back, I see how this greatly limited the growth of our team and how this exemplified poor leadership on my part. I was not respectful of my team’s time and as a result we had few members who were invested in our club , and it actually exponentially increased my workload causing me to be more stressed more often.

This led me to burn out for a period of time in my 3rd year. I needed to take off a whole semester from regular campus activism because, to be brutally honest, I was too disorganized to even manage my time!

I thought I didn’t need to manage my time in order to have effective activism. I thought that the activism was effective enough and if someone was bought in enough they would show up no matter what.

The reality is that a very small percentage of people operate like that. If you do as a campus leader, it’s because you are bought in – and I get it. . For most people, activism is something they have to learn how to do.  And in order to learn how to do it, they need to be given strong, organized and respectful opportunities to do it.

If you burn out, you won’t be able to do activism very well for very long. It’s that simple.

If you choose the ‘convenience’ of being able to do activism whenever you would like at the expense of a strong team, you are creating barriers between your campus and hearing the pro-life message effectively, and regularly… And that is on you. You won’t be able to affect your campus as well as you would like…

If you don’t choose to manage your time, your activism will be sporadic. Sporadic activism usually means disorganized activism, miscommunication, and more stress. And let’s be honest, doing activism at the last minute on a regular basis usually results in just doing activism less often.

You won’t save as many lives…

Why? Because you just won’t be around as much.

Let’s break it down:

if you aren’t there sharing the pro-life perspective, your peers will not be challenged.
if you aren’t there, making yourself available, your peers will not be challenged.
if you aren’t there, with a sharp mind and open heart, your peers will not be challenged.
And they will be more likely to choose abortion. #TruthBomb

Recently, at Simon Fraser University (Burnaby), the pro-life students were doing the QA (Question Abortion) Project. They talked to a student for a while about abortion. Before he left he said, “ Thanks for being here. I’m on my way actually talk to my friend and her boyfriend about their new pregnancy. Now I know what I’m going to say.”

Wow. powerful.

Here are some tools to help you become a better, more timely and more effective activist and human being:

TeamViewer for online presentations: https://www.teamviewer.com/en/use-cases/meetings-and-collaboration/

Boomerang #Trickster #ThereAreTwo
For capturing activism into a GIF: http://simplymeasured.com/blog/why-boomerang-what-this-app-really-means-for-social-marketers/#sm.00000lqc1p6z5dxluj92azwx94vr8
For managing club emails: http://www.boomerangapp.com/

Doodle:
For scheduling activism efficiently: http://doodle.com/

Google Calendar:
For making sure you all know when they activism or meeting is happening: http://www.techrepublic.com/blog/google-in-the-enterprise/six-tips-to-manage-your-google-calendar-more-efficiently/

Google Hangouts
To communicate with your team wherever they are! http://www.wikihow.com/Use-Google%2B-Hangouts
(SIDENOTE: if you have a few minutes, also type “How to use google hangouts” into Youtube for some excellent entertainment)

Google Forms
To create important surveys for activism (but also pizza preferences) https://www.google.ca/forms/about/

Ultimately even using these tools requires you to make the commitment to manage your time better for your sake, the team’s sake and of course, on behalf of the babies.

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Pro-Life Movies: Staff Picks!

By: Maria McCann, NCLN Intern

Though summer is fast coming to a close, we students still have some long lazy days left with no schoolwork to take up our evenings! Why not spend that free time having a pro-life movie night with your friends? We asked our staff to suggest their favourite pro-life movies, and we got everything from a 1960’s drama to an animated comedy. Although some of these movies may not seem “pro-life” in the traditional vein of Bella or October Baby, they all proclaim the value of human life and the importance of fighting injustice. Enjoy watching one of these movies on a summer evening, and keep them in mind for a club social during the school year!

Michelle’s Pick: Horton Hears A Who (2008)

The children’s comedy Horton Hears a Who is an animated adaptation of the beloved Dr. Seuss story. Horton the elephant is amazed to discover the microscopic town of Whoville living on a speck. However, the rest of his community refuses to believe that the Whos exist, and Horton must protect Whoville from the wrath of his neighbours.

Michelle Caluag: “Not only funny and entertaining, this movie also presents a very basic but crucial pro-life message (though not intended) to everyone: ‘A person is a person no matter how small.’ Horton shows us that every life deserves to be protected and cared for. He stands up against the antagonists to protect the people of Whoville, showing us that every life is valuable and worth fighting for.”

movie night picKathleen and Christine’s Pick: The Giver (2014)

Both Kathleen and Christine praised The Giver for its pro-life themes and for its inspirational protagonist, Jonas. The Giver depicts a seemingly-Utopian community where the citizens have traded emotions, memory and family for stability. However, dark secrets lurk behind the community’s idyllic facade. When Jonas is chosen to become the town’s new “Receiver of Memory” and becomes capable of emotion, he discovers these secrets and wrestles with how to respond.

Kathleen LeBlanc: “Watching The Giver was very powerful for me. I was surprised to see a mainstream movie portray the fight for life in a culture of death so accurately. I felt such a connection to the main character, Jonas, who finds himself in a culture that is blind to the preciousness of human life. He takes such great risks to protect the life of another, and acts with such urgency and confidence, even though he is alone in the fight. The Giver was such a strong reminder to me of how we must respond to the culture of death that we are living in: with determination and with haste.”

Christine Helferty: “The Giver is one of my favourite movies with a pro-life message because it beautifully demonstrates three truths. Firstly, it shows that great injustices can be very widely accepted practices hidden behind deceiving language. Secondly, it clearly portrays the horrors of injustice and the beauties and joys of life and love. Finally, and most importantly, this movie demonstrates the indispensable importance of each individual. Our role in ending the injustices of our time is no less important than Jonas’s role in ending the injustice of his time.”

Maria’s Pick: To Kill a Mockingbird (1962)

Maria: “A film-adaptation of a book does not usually do justice to its source. To Kill A Mockingbird is the exception. This movie depicts Harper Lee’s classic novel, in which ‘Atticus Finch, a lawyer in the Depression-era South, defends a black man against an undeserved rape charge, and his kids against prejudice’ (IMDb). It is also a coming-of-age story told from the perspective of Scout, Atticus’ young daughter.

This movie inspires because it shows the importance of speaking the truth and standing up for human beings who are being dehumanized. Atticus Finch, in particular, gives a moving example of justice and love in the face of bigotry and hatred. Gregory Peck, who won an Oscar for playing Atticus, has become the voice of my conscience: ‘In the name of God, do your duty’. I’m not the only one who was inspired by the character: the American Film Institute voted Peck’s portrayal of Atticus as the Number 1 Screen Hero of the last 100 years.”

Anastasia’s Pick: Les Intouchables (2011)

Anastasia Pearse: “The French movie Les Intouchables does a beautiful job of narrating the true story of a paraplegic man, Philippe, who hires and befriends an ex-convict, Driss. This unlikely duo prove to be a perfect match who bring joy, laughter, and meaning into each other’s lives. It affirms the necessity of looking past other’s apparent disabilities, making the best of our current situations, and being open and vulnerable enough to realize that each of us needs to rely on others. As Philippe says in the movie, ‘Don’t wait for things to get easier, simpler, better. Life will always be complicated. Learn to be happy right now. Otherwise, you’ll run out of time.’

Philippe is further quoted in the movie as saying ‘It doesn’t matter who you are on the outside, the main thing is who you are on the inside.’ From my experience, this is a statement that the majority of people in our society would agree with! However, so many of our actions run counter to this, specifically in regards to the current euthanasia issue. It’s sad that our society is not aware of this incongruency – that our advocating for euthanasia is emphasizing that we are placing our value as humans on external more than internal qualities. This well acted and entertaining movie certainly puts a face to this issue and shows that we find joy when we connect with and support others from the inside out.”

Clarissa’s Pick: The Island (2005)

In the sci-fi thriller The Island, the protagonist Lincoln and other residents live in an isolated, rigidly governed compound. They believe that the outside world is too contaminated to sustain human life. Their only hope of escape is to win a weekly lottery that will let them go to “the island”, the last remaining paradise. However, Lincoln soon learns the horrible truth that he and his friends are clones, created for organ harvesting and other uses.

Clarissa Canaria: “This movie – perhaps without meaning to – shows the true destruction of embryonic stem cell research. An issue that oftentimes falls off the radar of even the keenest of pro-life activists, it is good to be aware of the sad inclinations of our society to treat human beings at their earliest beginnings as a commodity. It is powerful in depicting the wrongness of this use, and it is a great reminder to us all of everyone’s inherent dignity and value. If you’re into dystopian thrillers in general, that’s an added bonus!”

Chad’s Pick: Zathura (2005)

In this spiritual sequel to 1995’s Jumanji, two squabbling brothers, Danny and Walter, find a mysterious board game in their basement and begin playing it. They soon realize that the game affects reality: their home has been transported to outer space, and they must contend with the hazards of space, aliens, and a robot gone amok. Joined by their sister and an astronaut, Danny and Walter must get over their differences and learn to work together, if they are ever to reach Zathura and return home.

Chad Hagel: “While Zathura is particularly notable in encouraging the spirit of cooperation, somewhat less visible is its encouragement of the central pro-life tenet: every human being has value and can contribute in some way to the greater whole, by virtue of being human. At the beginning of the movie, Walter is particularly hostile towards Danny: he belittles him, and doesn’t show particular regard for Danny’s feelings. As the movie wears on, Walter begins to care for his brother, and even goes out of his way to save him at the film’s climax. Just as Walter grows to become a brother to Danny, so to does this film encourage us to become better humans, respecting other humans for their humanity and inherent value to our society. If you loved Jumanji, appreciate good acting by Kirsten Stewart or love science fiction in general, I would highly encourage you to sink your teeth into this film!”

Josh’s Pick: Sophie Scholl – The Final Days (2005) 

This historical drama retells onscreen the story of Sophie Scholl and the White Rose, an anti-Nazi student group based in Munich, Germany during the Second World War. Persecuted for their beliefs and bold tactics, Sophie and her friends refuse to give in to pressure and compromise their beliefs. For that, they pay the ultimate price.

Josh MacMillan: “Sometimes pursuing truth comes at a price. For Sophie Scholl and the members of the White Rose, that meant exposing the lies and censorship of the Nazis at their university, despite the consequences. On our campuses, we are called to do exactly the same thing for the vulnerable. We know the lies that our culture is spinning to dehumanize the weak, and must respond in whatever way we can to proclaim the rights of every human being. While there may also be a price for us, the example of the students in this film should spur us to take courage and boldly stand up for what we know to be true, good, and beautiful.”

Joanna’s Pick: Les Miserables (2012)

Joanna Krawczynski: “First, I have to challenge you – take time to read the book. We read an abridged version in French class, and I keep this close for inspiration. Also, having the context provided by the book fleshes out the story,  as the rich background plot is not always given in the movie.

What sticks out to me about this film: how characters illustrate what real relationship should look like, that is, laying down your life for the good of another. Also, the prominent theme of mercy hits home for me, how difficult but desperately needed it is to give and to receive mercy.

This film also brings home some very sad history. The film is at times hard to watch, depicting the dangers of dehumanization and the resulting violence and exploitation. However, the film also depicts how vital and truly beautiful it is to choose life instead of death, love instead of hatred, forgiveness over bitterness. The world of Les Miz is one that is dark and shattered, yet love remains not only possible but imperative. This world and mission sound familiar to anyone?”

We hope we’ve given you some inspiration for your next movie night! Comment to let us know your thoughts on these movies, or let us know if we missed any hidden gems!

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University of Toronto Students for Life: What We Accomplished Last Semester

This post was written for University of Toronto Students for Life by Sarah Blake. It does not necessarily represent the views of NCLN.

It’s hard to believe that we are halfway through the school year and already in 2015! UTSFL is hopeful as we gear up for a New Year of pro-life activism. But before we get too caught up in our plans, let’s remind ourselves of the ways that we reached students, faculty, and staff with the pro-life message last semester:

We reached out to lots of students with our table at various Clubs Fairs…
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…and sold baked goods as a fundraiser for Aid to Women.

October 5

Some of us were able to attend the NCLN Symposium, which gave us the tools and wisdom to make our club as effective as possible.

September 3

We helped organize a group to participate in LifeChain…

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shared the story of the life of Elliot Hartman Mooney in “99 Balloons”…
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and welcomed the Sisters of Life who taught us about Understanding the Heart of a Pregnant Woman in Crisis.

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We hosted an event in which Maaike Rosendal from the CCBR taught us how to dialogue on abortion…

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and used our newly-acquired skills to speak to students about the current status of abortion law in canada (hint: there is no law).

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And we finished off the year with a Christmas Social, in support of Birthright!

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Happy New Year to all! Let’s see what we can accomplish this semester!

Read the comments at the University of Toronto Students for Life website.

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True patriot love.

We sing the words in our anthem, yet the word ‘patriot’ rarely seems to enter our vocabulary (unless we’re referring to Americans, of course). But in a society that has euthanasia knocking down the door and fully funds abortion-on-demand, true patriot love is sorely needed.

If we want to end abortion in Canada and build a Culture of Life, we need to start by transforming our own campuses. Our universities not only contain the age demographic most vulnerable to undergoing abortions, but also are responsible for forming and shaping young leaders who, in turn, shape the culture and the policies of our nation. To move our nation we must first must move our own wounded generation from a place of apathy to one of action.

We need a generation of patriots.

The Symposium is an intensive pro-life leadership training program, designed to equip and empower students to respond to and engage with the challenges of the university environment.

The program includes:

  • Training from the experts on the issues and effective campus strategies;
  • Skill development through interactive sessions and workshops;
  • Leadership formation;
  • Networking with student leaders from across Canada as well as leading members of the Pro-Life Movement.

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For regular updates, check out our Facebook event.

Location: Toronto, ON
Date: Friday September 26 , 2:30pm – Sunday September 28th, 1:00pm
The weekend includes overnight accommodations for Friday and Saturday night as well as meals.


  If your organization is interested in sponsoring this year’s Symposium,

please contact our Central Coordinator, Clarissa at central@ncln.ca for more information!

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BC SNMAC Tour – A Week in Review

Written by Anastasia Pearse

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2 NCLN Staff Members, 4 Speakers, 5 Days, 7 Campuses and Over 10,000 Students Reached!

I first came into contact with the Silent No More Awareness Campaign (SNMAC) in 2009 when I attended the NCLN Symposium in Toronto. I was moved to tears by the story of Angelina Steenstra, National Director of the Campaign in Canada, shared with us. The circumstances that led to her abortion, the regret and pain that followed, and her journey to healing opened my eyes in a new way to the pain that so many students on our university campuses feel because of abortion. With our age demographic – that of university students – undergoing the most abortions, it was clear that this message is so needed on Canadian campuses. But with our club in Victoria, it seemed too difficult to bring the campaign to campus. 

photo 2 (1)The next year, an NCLN staff member based out of Vancouver coordinated a tour of the Silent No More Awareness Campaign to several British Columbian campuses. My club in Victoria jumped at the chance to have them on campus and I saw firsthand the impact that the testimonials of the speakers had on students.

Now, several years later, as an NCLN staff member, I was determined to help bring the campaign once again to campuses in BC. After months of planning, we had seven campus groups on board, four speakers confirmed, and pleasant weather in the forecast, and I was ready for a fruitful week of sharing the campaign.  But even from the very first day, I could tell this was more than fruitful: it was life-changing.

On their campuses, the clubs booked outdoor space in high traffic areas. We reached students through our resource tables as well as through posters stating “Women Do Regret Abortion,” “Men Regret Lost Fatherhood,” and “A Pregnant Woman Needs Support, Not Abortion.” The speakers shared their stories of abortion and their journeys of healing through a sound system, helping extend the reach of their message. Students walking by would stop to listen: sometimes they paused for a moment, sometimes for a minute, and often for the entire presentation. Club members, as well as myself and my colleague Kathleen Dunn, were on hand to distribute information as well as engage with our peers in conversation.

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Some students, after hearing the message and talking to one of us, left with resources in hand, seeking to give them to people they knew who had experienced abortion, or to use themselves as they started on a path to healing. We saw lives transformed in front of us with women breaking their silence about their abortion stories – one woman after 50 years – and leaving with a sense of hope. We estimate that we reached over 10,000 students in those 5 days, not including those who encountered the message through student newspaper coverage, discussions in their classrooms, and social media discussion.

The campaign’s impact also extended to the pro-life students and to the speakers themselves. The pro-life students saw the reach the campaign had and were even more convicted and encouraged to be active in sharing the pro-life message. The speakers shared their testimonies multiple times over the 5 days, but by the end of the week felt more fulfilled than fatigued, as they saw the impact they had, and felt the support from each other.

For myself, I was truly inspired: inspired by the speakers’ heart-felt witness to the cause; inspired by the pro-life students’ energy and determination to reach out with the message; and inspired by the students who were open to listening to our message and sharing their stories with us.

It is heart-wrenching to encounter so many young men and women who have been hurt by abortion, but I have a great deal of hope for our generation. I have hope because I see pro-life students becoming leaders who are reaching out with compassion to help their peers, and I have hope because I have seen firsthand how the pro-life message is touching students on campus.
Thank you to all those who supported this campaign! If you’d like to help continue making these campaigns possible, please consider supporting our work financially: www.ncln.ca/donate

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To hear the testimonies that were heard on BC Campuses, visit our Youtube Channel! 

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To see more pictures from the Campus Tour, visit our Facebook page!

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5 Steps to Making the Most of Your Tabling Event!

By Clarissa Luluquisin, Central Campus Coordinator

 As NCLN’s Central Campus Coordinator, my job involves getting my boots on the ground (specifically winter ones in this weather).  I trek to campuses across the province to train and assist pro-life students in their outreach, and my favourite project to help with is the club information table.  

What can be better than engaging with a person one-on-one, hearing their thoughts on abortion and responding to their concerns, and thanking them for taking a moment to speak to you?

Can you tell that I’m an extrovert?

Although events like debates and movie screenings can be very impactful, the information table marks the start of many personal relationships of the pro-life club’s members with soon-to be club members, as well as engaging with students who are not informed about abortion.  It is pro-life activism and recruitment – all packaged into one easy event! 

How you begin these relationships matter, and in maintaining these relationships, your club has a greater opportunity to grow.  And the more it grows, the more people there will be working alongside you to spread the pro-life message.  This engagement is all the more important with lives on the line.  

Check out our information guide on tabling here, and also find my 5 suggestions:

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1. Create an eye-catching display board with a variety of resources on the table.

Make an event out of it with your Exec too – no need to do this all on your own.  And if you’re short on resources, contact your local campus coordinator and you’ll be sent a bunch for free. Don’t forget to print out a sign-up sheet too!

2. Start all conversations with a kind smile.

People want to talk to people who are friendly and approachable, and this is harder to do on some days, with all that you have on your plate.
Think of laughing babies and joyful mothers if you need some motivation! 🙂

3. Speak with compassion and conviction.

Asking someone how they feel about abortion can bring up a lot of different emotions in a person.  Whether it be anger, sadness, or indifference, listen attentively, tell stories, and ask good questions.  Agree with them where you can, and explain with clarity where you cannot.  Illustrate your points well and schedule an apologetics trainings for your club members every once in a while to refresh yourself.  

 4. Follow up personally with the people who have signed up for your email list and invite them to the next meeting or club event.

This cannot be emphasized enough.  A day or two after your table, send a personal email to the student you spoke with, thank them for taking the time to chat with you, and invite them to your next meeting.  If you got along really well, why not suggest meeting up for coffee to tackle a bit further that interesting point they brought up?

5. Debrief with your club members.

Whether in between conversations, or soon after a day of tabling is done, debriefing about your conversations is so essential.  How else are you ever going to get better and spread the message as effectively as possible?  If you didn’t like how you said something, think about it some more, and come up with ways with your fellow club members you would have liked to say it instead.  

Ready? Set? GROW!

Have any stories about tabling on your campus?  Send us an email

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University of Toronto Students for Life: Life Week: November 4-8

This post was written for University of Toronto Students for Life by Blaise Alleyne. It does not necessarily represent the views of NCLN.

We’re making next week Life Week at the University of Toronto!

Look for us on campus!

First, we’ll have a visible public presence on campus early in the week, with activism projects and information tables. If you’d like to help out, please contact us for more information.

Then, we’re hosting three big events at the end of the week:

  1. Thurs Nov 7 @ 7pm: Abortion vs. Childbirth: The Latest Evidence on Psychological Risks (lecture)
  2. Fri Nov 8 @ 9am-4pm: Complications: Abortion’s Impact on Women (full-day conference)
  3. Fri Nov 8 @ 7pm: Stephanie Gray vs. late-term abortionist Dr. Fraser Fellows (debate)

1. LECTURE: Abortion vs. Childbirth: The Latest Evidence on Psychological Risks

Date: Thursday, November 7 at 7:00pm
Location: Father Madden Hall (Carr Hall, 100 St. Joseph Street)
Cost: Free!
https://www.facebook.com/events/607553529290449/

Dr. Priscilla Coleman

Come to this free public lecture, in association with the deVeber Institute for Bioethics and Social Research, featuring Dr. Priscilla Coleman on Abortion vs. Childbirth: The Latest Evidence on Psychological Risks.

Space is limited, so get there early!

2. CONFERENCE: Complications: Abortion’s Impact on Women

Date: Friday, November 8 9am-4pm (Registration: 8:30am)
Location: Father Madden Hall (Carr Hall, 00 St. Joseph Street)
Cost: Regular $60; Students $20. Lunch and refreshments included.
https://www.facebook.com/events/1426135750943000/

Complications: Abortion's Impact on Women (book cover)

In association with the deVeber Institute for Bioethics and Social Research, this conference will present explosive new research that shows a multitude of harmful effects on women’s health from abortion. Be one of the first to get the latest findings from this new book. Abortion can impact future infertility, cancer, autoimmune disease, depression and more. Includes powerful personal stories.

Featuring:

  • Dr. Priscilla Coleman
  • Dr. Angela Lanfranchi
  • Elizabeth Ring-Cassidy
  • Professor Ian Gentles
  • Angelina Steenstra
  • and many more.

To register, contact the deVeber Institute via the web, or email or by phone at 416-256-0555.

3. DEBATE: Stephanie Gray vs. late-term abortionist Dr. Fraser Fellows

Date: Friday, November 8 at 7:00pm
Location: JRR Macleod Auditorium, Medical Sciences Building (MS 2158), 1 King’s College Circle
Cost: Free!
https://www.facebook.com/events/235396916614972/

Stephanie Gray

Sponsored by the Canadian Physicians for Life, pro-life speaker Stephanie Gray of the Canadian Centre for Bio-Ethical Reform will debate late-term abortionist Dr. Fraser Fellows on the topic of whether abortion is harmful to women. No matter what you think about abortion, you won’t want to miss this opportunity to here the best arguments from both sides.

Space is limited, so get there early!

Read the comments at the University of Toronto Students for Life website.